In the book of Proverbs, King Solomon and others offer wise advice – especially for young people growing up and learning to live a life that puts God first.

A good character is pleasing to God:

“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” (Proverbs 4:23, NLT) Our heart reflects our attitude and determines how we spend our time and what we think is most important. Do we love God and Jesus and look for ways to serve them and others?

“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” (Proverbs 16:18, English Standard Version) The Bible is filled with examples of prideful individuals who came to a bad end – just look at Satan. Humility – a quality Jesus had that we should try to copy – is a key to pleasing God.

“Do not let kindness and truth leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” (Proverbs 3:3, NASB) Using picture language, this means kindness and truth should always be close to us, like a necklace. “Writing them on our hearts” means that these qualities should always be part of our character.

“Choose a good reputation over great riches; being held in high esteem is better than silver or gold.” (Proverbs 22:1, NLT) Our reputation is connected to the characteristics people see in us – like if we are known to be honest and trustworthy. We want to be good examples to everyone around us!

“A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” (Proverbs 11:25, NIV) Good deeds generate good feelings. When we have a giving attitude, we can inspire others to give back or pay it forward!

“A hot-tempered person starts fights; a cool-tempered person stops them.” (Proverbs 15:18, NLT) When something doesn’t go our way, do we get really mad and respond with angry words? Solomon is warning us against this. If someone else is upset, can we step in and try to calm the situation with loving words? (see Proverbs 15:18)

“People who despise advice are asking for trouble; those who respect a command will succeed.” (Proverbs 13:13, NLT) We should respect advice and suggestions from others who are wise – like Solomon!

As we have seen, Proverbs contains valuable advice for improving our character: “Joyful is the person who finds wisdom, the one who gains understanding.” (Proverbs 3:13, NLT)

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