In the book of Proverbs, King Solomon and others offer wise advice – especially for young people growing up and learning to live a life that puts God first.

Choosing our words carefully is important: 

“A kind answer soothes angry feelings, but harsh words stir them up.” (Proverbs 15:1, Contemporary English Version) Conflict can quickly create bad feelings. We often say things we don’t mean in the heat of an argument. If we instead speak calmly and kindly, it’s easier for angry people to calm down.
 
“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves; ensure justice for those being crushed.” (Proverbs 31:8, NLT) Bullying is a serious problem today. If you see someone at school being mistreated, tell a trusted adult, like a parent or a teacher. 

“Truth will last forever; lies are soon found out.” (Proverbs 12:19, Contemporary Version)

Lies hurt both the teller and the listener. It’s also hard to remember the lies we tell, so we tend to tell more. Soon, we’re in a huge mess. What’s more, God hates lying! (see Proverbs 6:17)

“The one who guards his mouth and tongue keeps himself out of trouble.” (Proverbs 21:23, Christian Standard Bible) Sometimes we say things without thinking first, causing problems. Solomon reminds us that we need to watch our words carefully, and think before we speak.

“Kind words are like honey – sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.” (Proverbs 16:24, NLT) 

Doesn’t it feel nice when sincere people say kind things to us? We should do the same for them! Can you say something encouraging to someone today?

“The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense.” (Proverbs 27:9, NLT) 

When a friend comes to us in need, do we put all distractions away and focus on what they are saying? Only in this way can we listen carefully and give good advice. Don’t we want our friends to do the same for us?

As we have seen, Proverbs contains valuable advice about our words: “Joyful is the person who finds wisdom, the one who gains understanding.” (Proverbs 3:13, NLT)

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